Here, here and here are articles discussing the problems with The Patriarchy Movement, as it relates to children. One thing I love about the Pearls is, they don't pull any punches, but tell it just like it is. Especially note this paragraph in the last article:
Now, I would like to deal with the issue of balance. Published truth is too often delivered like a pendulum; it swings from side to side, extreme to opposite extreme, always seeking rest. Each person receiving it is responsible to assimilate the whole spectrum and to strike a balance. That is the continual challenge of one’s intellectual existence.Italics are mine.